4-Step Process to Resolve Conflict Quickly

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This Miracle Question Replaces Confusion With Clarity

These things might seem unrelated, but imagine for a second what it feels like to: Be stuck in a gut-wrenching dilemma. Have a hard time speaking up or saying no to someone. Be miserable in a relationship because you’re conflicted. Continually disappoint yourself for failing to follow through on something that’s really important. Although these examples might appear dissimilar, they are all scenarios that cause anxiety. Think of EVERYTHING in your life that gives you anxiety… whether it’s a relationship, a deliverable, an idea, or a remodel that’s taking longer than planned. I’ll tell you right now it’s your frame of unintended focus that’s coloring your situation with distress. All you need to do is to wake up to what it is. What do I mean? Every time you find yourself in any bit of discomfort regarding ANY situation, person, thing, or idea – ask yourself this:

Your C-IQ Determines Your Success. What’s Yours?

We all know about IQ, we’re hearing lots about EQ these days… now it’s time to learn about C-IQ. “Success” is such a loaded term. What it means to me is probably very different than what it means to you. But regardless of what it looked like for either of us, I bet we could agree on what it would feel like… expansive, abundant, generative, collaborative, connected… We don’t live in a vacuum, we exist in relationship. I’d go so far as to say it’s the multitude of relationships that not only defines our identity but the quality of our life. And what defines relationship? The communication that exists within it. I mentioned a while back that I was in the process of learning all things neuroscience about communication, and immersed in an emerging realm called Conversational Intelligence® (C-IQ). After a 7 month