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Slow the Aging Process with Perspective

Image credit: Elizabeth Fall Information extracted from IPTC Photo Metadata, "How are we not talking about this??" by Amy Eliza Wong, Life and Executive Coach in the San Francisco Bay Are

Nobel Prize Winner Elizabeth Blackburn (photo by Elizabeth Fall)

Learn how to slow the aging process and improve the quality of your life by understanding the power of perspective and mindset.

If someone told you you could slow the aging process and improve the quality of your life without spending a dime, would you pay attention? What if you learned that this supposed solution was scientifically proven and easier than you could imagine?

When I heard about Elizabeth Blackburn, Carol Greider, and Jack Szostak’s Nobel Prize for the discovery of how chromosomes are protected by telomeres and telomerase  (the enzyme that keeps cells from dying) I was intrigued. But, I just about fell out of my chair listening to Blackburn’s TED talk. Reason being, I am a transformation and happiness research geek. I have devoted 20 years of my life to helping others find joy, freedom and possibility. The research I stumbled upon here makes me want to shout from the rooftops about the power of our mindset. 

We can slow the aging process

With the help of psychologist Elisa Epel and other scientists from various fields and disciplines – and after 10,000 scientific papers later – findings conclude that we have can protect our health-span. “Healthspan” is the number of healthy, youthful and productive years in our total life span. On the contrary, “disease span” is the number of years spent sick and on the decline.

We’ve officially evolved from the intuitive conjecture that “stress makes you sick” and now can prove that it does. More importantly, Blackburn and her team have proven the opposite: How we choose to focus our thoughts, how we choose to interpret, and how we choose to perceive determines the length of our health-span. In other words, we have control over our own aging process by our chosen mindset.

How Mindset Influences the Aging Process 

Telomeres are the protective caps at the ends of every chromosome. Every time the cell divides the telomere takes on wear and tear. As soon as it’s too worn down, the cell is signaled to die. The shorter our telomeres, the more aged, rigid, and old we are. (So conversely, the longer the telomeres the more youthful and healthy we are.)

Telomerase is an enzyme that keeps the telomere intact and prevents it from breaking down. Therefore, a robust telomerase maintenance capacity correlates to a long and lovely health-span.

What all the scientists have concluded is amazing: What directly influences your telomerase maintenance capacity is HOW YOU RESPOND TO THE LIFE EVENTS THAT HAPPEN TO YOU.

After all the studies, they found that it isn’t the stressful life events that occur in one’s life that weakens and shortens the telomeres, it is the interpretation that these life events are negative, threatening, and not wanted.

Look, stuff happens. Contrary to popular belief there is no inherent meaning in the stuff. We experience meaning by how we choose to perceive the stuff. Life can deliver really big servings of scary hairy crap sandwiches. How we react to and interpret what’s on our plate is up to us. We can see it as a triggering threat – and we’ll ruminate, whine, entertain worst-case scenarios, and internally marinate in long baths of the stress hormone cortisol. OR, we can take it in stride, maybe find the silver lining, find a way to be light-hearted, and interpret it as a thrilling or rigorous challenge to overcome.

It’s our choice

We get to choose to interpret stressful events in a non-stressful way… this is exactly what keeps our telomeres intact. This is exactly what keeps us youthful. We have more control over the aging process than we could have imagined.

I hope you’re as excited by this as I am. I love knowing that I have the remote control of my mind in my hand. That I get to choose what channels of good feeling thoughts I want to entertain. I love knowing that all I need to do is be intolerant of feeling crappy. I love knowing it is up to me.

If you want to bolster your ability to interpret in a way that serves you better, check this out: a study out of UCLA showed that individuals negatively affected by the chronic stress of caring for a loved one with dementia improved their telomerase maintenance capacity by meditating as little as 12 minutes a day for 2 months. If that’s not enough reason to take up the habit of taking time-in, I don’t know what is! (Check this out if you want a bit more guidance on meditation as a life practice).

I’m all fired up that there’s more exciting evidence of the mind-body connection. Stoked there’s a scientific reason why I whistle while I work. 🙂


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